A view on elements of relationships a in a way to make you think and question your own ideology.

Monday, September 23, 2013

What is Love really?!?!?

  1. Love is the emotion of strong affection and personal attachment
  2. Emotion is the complex psychophysiological experience of an individuals state of mind as interacting with biochemical (internal) and environmental (external) influences. In humans, emotion fundamentally involves "physiological arousal, expressive behaviors, and conscious experience".[1] Emotion is associated with mood, temperament, personality and disposition, and motivation.
  3. Affection is a "disposition or rare state of mind or body
"outside of our parents, everything is different, no two people have had the same experience,  no two people have the same definition of love, but if they know what each other's definition of love is, well, that is where they can either begin to grow, or begin to let go."(Gino)

Lets break down love scientifically shall we love is defined as an emotion, we all know human emotions can change like the wind they do all the time part two is Affection well that's just a disposition towards a person now lets remember we are breaking this down scientifically. So the two key components of love is based on two very unstable things it can be almost equated to letting anti-matter touch matter...

\Well almost... Gino Forizs (who should write a book) brought up some interesting points if you read them two peoples definition of love are not the same mine for example mine is loyalty through and through. Ever since I seen that movie unfaithful I always questioned a persons love for another when they have the mala in se(evil in itself) to cheat on someone that they made a promise to or even told that they loved I thought like this since I was 13.

From what I seen in recent years I still question fellow soldiers, friends, and anyone who would commit harm to something they say they "love" well do they really. Then I encountered a woman(Gino) I wish I can say I love her for this but lets face it after this note how can we ever use this word love...She said love is the word people use when can't express the feeling that they are feeling.
And if love is an emotion and humans can experience hundreds of emotions then how can an individual lock what they are feeling on to love when it could be a number of things they are experience. And I know what y'all are saying what about your parents(see Attachment theory google it). Whatever a persons definition of love is remember two people don't have the same definition of love we have to all agree with so many definitions of love how do you truly know what is real.

We all know what makes us angry and can identify anger and what makes us sad and identify sadness but love has so many definitions it can't be identified . Me for example I don't believe anyone who told me they were in love are really in love but then again I judge actions. And from what I seen way to much gray/black area for me to say they love each other...

I'll take that back Ray Thomas and Patricia K do love each other I will say that they the exception not the rule. Now lets get down to bass tactics this love thing  is just a feeling most people want in there life nowadays its better to say that you have somebody that loves you just not to have to be alone and maybe face yourself...

Some people just want they cake and eat it too they mean love as in s/he takes my crap and I can always comeback to that individual. This thing we call love is something to me that humans can't understand, I don't want to be alone doesn't mean I love neither does she's having my child plan and simple. Probably why divorce rates are so high two people misunderstanding what love they mean when they say I love....I'll leave y'all with this last quote from (Gino)...

"Well I'm not stuck in a fantastical wonderland of wedding dresses and hugs and kisses. I prefer to live =) there for I think outside of the box."(Gino Forizs)

When we separate the fantastical from reality maybe we can define love...maybe.

What do you all think??

1 comment:

  1. I believe love is truly undefined as a whole. Individuals need to WANT to be their significant others one and only in learning them inside and out wholeheartedly. In my opinion, psychological factors play a role in a person's ability to decipher love from lust. If one's up-bringing was not as nurturing and caring as they needed, they might tend to jump into a relationship and call it love. In actuality, I feel that individuals should take the time to get to know themselves and who they are before they go chasing someone around calling it love. How does one know how they want to be treated and their standards/values in life if they do not know themselves? I believe love is a powerful connection between two people whom have a firm grasp of themselves, and are ready to further their maturation of life by molding two hearts into one.