A view on elements of relationships a in a way to make you think and question your own ideology.

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Tell me Something Tuesday

Tell me something if people are so with the idea of commitment why is it so hard to commit. It’s like everywhere I go someone is together but they not together know what I mean? It’s like people get together catch all these feeling and get into something I like to call a situationship.

And in these “situationships” it’s like either one or both parties is in the current relationship but they have more issue that keep them together other than just letting go of something destructive.  Tell me something else why is the destructive nature of the relationship used for people to stay together? It’s like people would rather say they have someone and be unhappy than let go and be alone and be happy. 

It’s like people have the Stevie J and Joseline Hernandez syndrome now I don’t watch Love and Hip Hop and I really have no idea what goes on in that show. But from what I understand is Stevie J is the destructive force in that relationship and Joseline will do anything to keep it going. The key is to love yourself and be a maker not a taker, what I mean by that is.

Make your own happiness don’t take it from someone else, make your own choices it don’t take the time to blame others, and Make the decision to be your own man or woman and not let someone else define your happiness. I think in doing this everyone could fine the happiness within and not have to look outward for those “situationships”.

Thursday, October 3, 2013

Picture of the Day

This picture of the famous metaphor cloak and dagger reminds me of the duality of what I have been discussing so far in this blog. The dagger represents to me protection of the person that means the most to you.
The dagger also can have a double meaning in that we can often times hurt the people that we care for the most. Well maybe I say the dagger has a triple meaning as in it can be double edged.
We sometimes end up stabbing ourselves in the pursuit of happiness with the very dagger that we want to protect others with and from.
The cloak on the other hand has many meanings different people will view the cloak and different ways. One way I see it is secrecy often times we hide ourselves from ourselves meaning that people don't like to face their own truths.
This make it harder to connect with someone that you care for because if can't love yourself how can you muster the courage to love others. Love is a game of give and take and people behind these cloaks often times can't open up enough to give or take. 
By all means the cloak doesn't have to mean shrouded in mystery we taking about matters of relationships it could also mean a new uniform. A mantle in a sense that one takes up for the person that they care about the most.
This mantle can be used to represent a new identity for one self.  I don't know these are just thoughts my thoughts I would like to view  your thoughts on the matter..........